9 Tips in 9 Weeks: How to Give Care When You Can’t Be There
Long-distance caregiving is full of unique challenges that require creative solutions. Our #9in9caring series is full of tips, tools, and strategies for caregivers.
Welcome to the Retirement Safety Zone series on how to give care when you can’t be there. That’s something that’s touched all of our lives, maybe for ourselves, being isolated, alone, without someone to help out…
#9 Tip: Locate Important Documents. Find the documents that will help caregivers respect patient wishes, authorize a medical or financial decision-maker, and help pay the bills.
Getting to know your loved one’s medical care providers may lead to more focused medical care and improved health for them. You might find some peace of mind - but make sure to have the right paperwork in place.
No matter where your loved one is receiving care, staying in touch with care providers focuses provider attention and keeps you informed. Be positive - you’re all on the same team. When your loved one lives too far away for frequent trips to their residence, watching out for their well being can be challenging. Getting to know their caregivers can make all the difference.
Asking for help or admitting you need help can be hard. Start the discussion with simple chores like getting the lawn mowed and ease into sensitive topics like showering and vision or hearing changes.
Help your loved one get well by ensuring medicine is easily available. Don’t forget over-the-counter medicine, vitamins and supplements. You can help with prescription drugs in a way that makes a real difference.
Shopping can become an impossible chore due to disabilities caused by illness or aging. Setting up and assisting with online shopping may improve your loved one’s nutrition and help life feel a bit more normal.
Talk to friends and neighbors living locally who might be able to do wellness checks from time to time. Exchange contact information with two or three who are reliable and willing.
Chronic emotional and physical pain can cause a great deal of damage to our bodies. One way to help your loved one beat the odds is to help them stay positive.
Do you have a family member or a friend in need of care but don’t live close enough to help in person? This series is for you. Each week for 9 weeks you’ll get a new tip on how to be a successful long-distance caregiver.